Life by Durands is a proposal planning company in Portugal that designs, coordinates and delivers complete personalized marriage proposal experiences for couples travelling from around the world.
 
 
We don't just organize proposals
We design every detail around your story, creating more than a proposal: a shared memory that strengthens your connection for years to come.
You can start with one of our ready-to-go proposal packages or request a personalized quote. In both cases, your experience is guided by a dedicated Proposal Planner and shaped around your story, your travel plans and the emotional impact you want to create.
Start with one of our proposal packages or request a personalized quote based on your plans, destination and partner’s personality.
After booking, your dedicated Proposal Planner guides you through the story, timing, location and meaningful details that will shape the proposal.
Our team coordinates suppliers, logistics, decoration, photography, videography, transport, tickets and everything needed behind the scenes.
Before the day, you receive a clear proposal guide with exact locations, timing, contacts and practical tips, so you can arrive confident and focus fully on your partner.
 
 
The Heart Behind It
Life by Durands was created by Nadia Trindade and Alisson Nascimento, a couple with many years of experience in hospitality, events, photography, and emotional storytelling.
After more than 2,000 romantic experiences delivered for couples from over 55 countries, we know that a proposal is never just about the setting. It is about the story, the timing, the atmosphere and the feeling your partner will remember.
That is why we design each proposal with intention, combining planning, logistics and visual storytelling to create a moment that feels personal, natural and deeply meaningful.
 
 
For more than 16 years, we have been creating romantic experiences with a rare combination of emotional sensitivity, logistical precision and visual storytelling.
From secret proposals to intimate elopements and personalized romantic experiences, our work is designed to feel effortless for you while every detail is carefully handled behind the scenes.
Couples trust us because we combine experience, discretion and thoughtful planning to create moments that feel personal, natural and deeply meaningful.
She thought it was just a trip with friends.
He planned a secret picnic by the Tagus, complete with a violinist and flowers waiting in his hands.
What happened next was pure magic.
What is a Proposal Planner?
A.A Proposal Planner is a professional who designs, coordinates and manages a marriage proposal experience from concept to execution. At Life by Durands, you will have a dedicated Proposal Planner, with many years of experience, guiding the creative direction, location, timing, logistics, suppliers and emotional details that shape the proposal.
Can I plan a proposal in Portugal from another country?
A.Yes. Most of our couples are travelling to Portugal from abroad, and the entire planning process can happen online. We guide you through the experience remotely, from choosing the right location to preparing you for the proposal day.
How far in advance should I book?
A.Most proposal experiences are booked between six months and one week in advance. We have also successfully planned proposals with only a few hours’ notice, although these come with certain limitations. As we handle a limited number of proposals per day and some dates fill up quickly, we strongly recommend booking as early as possible, especially for popular dates, sunset timings, private venues, musicians, boats or more personalized concepts.
What happens if it rains?
A.When weather may affect the proposal, we closely monitor the forecast and proactively contact you to guide the best possible decision. We remain flexible and, when agreed in advance, adjustments to timing or date can be made without additional cost. Depending on the experience, this may include adapting the setup or activating a suitable backup plan, always ensuring the moment feels seamless and special.
Can you keep the proposal a surprise?
A.Yes. Surprise coordination is one of the most important parts of our work. We plan the timing, arrival instructions, photographer positioning and behind-the-scenes details so the proposal feels natural and your partner can enjoy the moment without suspecting what is about to happen. We also guide you on how to keep the secret and how to behave to avoid raising suspicion. Our communication is discreet, and we never call you unless you have explicitly requested it.
Do you offer photography and videography?
A.Yes. Hidden photography is available for all the proposal experiences, and we offer different video options depending on the experience. Some include a professional videographer, while others use iPhone video captured discreetly by the photographer. Drone footage can also be included when conditions and location allow. Our goal is to capture the reaction naturally, without interrupting the emotion of the moment.
Can I choose a ready-to-go package?
A.Yes. Our ready-to-go proposal packages are designed for couples who want a beautiful, well-structured experience with a simpler booking process. After booking, we still guide you through the emotional and practical details so the proposal feels personal.
Can you create a fully personalized proposal?
A.Yes. If you have a specific vision, location, theme or idea, we can create a personalized proposal experience. This may include custom decoration, musicians, private venues, boats, transport, meaningful details, and a full planning process shaped around your story.
What if I don’t know exactly what kind of proposal I want?
A.That is very common. You do not need to arrive with a fully formed idea. We guide you through the options, understand your partner and your travel plans, and shape the proposal into something personal, natural and meaningful.
How do I choose the best proposal location in Portugal?
A.Choosing the best proposal location in Portugal depends on privacy, scenery, accessibility, weather, timing and the couple’s personality. We guide you through the options and recommend locations that match your story, your travel plans and the type of proposal experience you want to create.